How To Deal With Crab Mentality, the Reddit Flavor
Understand how crab mentality works on Reddit. Learn why posts start getting attacked once they reach top 10, and how to protect your energy.
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Understand how crab mentality works on Reddit. Learn why posts start getting attacked once they reach top 10, and how to protect your energy.
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